John 14:15  If you love me, keep my commands.  

John 14:15  If you love me, keep my commands.  

Most young children obey their parents because they fear the consequences of not obeying. They test limits to discover the consequences of each infraction. After their curiosity is satisfied, and they understand the borders, most will feel secure and resign themselves to remaining within those limits until a new issue arises. Their resignation directly links to the consistent consequence they find when they disobey. If the consequence is sometimes given and other times not given, the student will continue to test that issue. They have a need to know there is a boundary.

            As children mature into young adults, a change takes place in their motivation for obeying. A respect and genuine love for parents often replaces the childhood fear. They begin to obey their parents out of respect and a desire to honor their mom and dad rather than out of the fear of punishment. This is what the Scripture means—“If you love me, you will obey what I command.” A mature person, who has set aside the rebellion of their teenage years, will joyfully follow the directives of the one who has earned their love and respect. They know that blessing will be the result. Willful obedience based upon love instead of fear is due to developed trust!

            Do you trust God enough to believe that He always leads the steps of the righteous? He has promised that he will never leave us nor forsake us (Deuteronomy 31:8). He has promised a long and abundant life to those who obey (Deuteronomy 6:2). God knows every detail of our lives and watches over us more than He takes care of the sparrows (Matthew 10:29-31).

            If you trust God, it will be evident in your life. As you confidently walk through your day, be willing to accept the things that you cannot change. Your love for God will shine into your world. If you say you love the Lord, but you continually break the “rules,” rebel against leadership, and purposely disregard biblical commands, you do not understand love.  Jesus said that if we love Him, we will (a choice) obey (do) what He commanded.  A person in love does not have to proclaim it to observers. It will be obvious. You honor those you love. Allow God’s love to penetrate every part of your life.  Submit to His commands, and His love will flow freely throughout your day.

Dear God, Teach me to trust you that I may grow in a greater love relationship with you. Lord, I want to trust you more!